The high number of opportunities to do this is what I love most about living in NYC.

I lived in shame of this for most of my life, until my late 20s. And once I got over it, you could say I overcompensated looking for it to make up for lost time lol.

I have many friends now with whom I play with their hair. Long, short, straight, curly, Asian, Jewish, Hispanic, white...

None of this is particularly sexual to me, at least not in the traditional sense - I don't like hairjobs, and am not interested in sex. Just cuddling and playing with hair, and taking pictures.

In the last few weeks

- Met with a woman of German descent with thick blonde hair to the middle of her butt (she's trying to grow it as long as possible). We cuddled for hours as I enveloped myself in her hair.

- Met an older Asian friend who wanted to try non-sexual kink (she's very very sexual). I brushed her hair out and massaged her scalp as she took a nap, then tried a hairjob (all with her consent). Confirmed once again how much I don't like them lol.

- Met an Asian friend who, like me, is not into sex. But she's very open minded and likes to try new sensations. We hung out as I brushed her hair out and braided it in various ways.

- Met a play partner, asian/white mix, and we cuddled and made out as I massaged her everywhere, including her scalp. She's EXTREMELY tactile and loves people playing with her hair, so much so that she gets into a trance. I appreciate her so much.

Tonight I'm meeting a potential play partner, we'll have a nice walk and talk about what we want to do. And next week I'm hanging out with a Jewish friend who's hair is only to bra-strap length but has the thickest, curliest hair I've ever seen (I genuinely thought her hair was fake when I first met her IRL).

I hope everyone's able to have these experiences in their life! I feel extremely fortunate and I tell these women how lucky I feel to know them whenever we hang out.