Hi everybody. I'm not looking for content. Just here to speak my mind about long hair and maybe vent a little bit.
I've always been attracted to longer hair. But I've more recently noticed that there are certain changes in length that seem to affect me far more than they should. I don't care much for the change from chest length to waist length. Then the change from waist length to tailbone length gets my attention. And then from tailbone length to mid-thigh length there's alarms going off in my head. But then after that, I don't care much for the length differences, and surprisingly I even sometimes have a little less interest in knee length and beyond.
I can't say for sure why I am this way, but I have an idea. As a kid, it was my mission to find girls with long hair. And in this time I noticed that there's just not that many girls with hair past their butt (at least not in the USA). Since then, I've just cared so much for hair at that rare length.
Then for the reason why I seem to care less for hair length past the thigh, I believe it's because it stops resembling a normal hairstyle. It hangs differently, and it gets in the way of their stride.
Had a couple of examples reminding of this recently. One example is that an internet girl I follow who had classic length hair returned from a social media hiatus with a thigh-length hair, which threw me for a loop. The other example is my already attractive coworker who played with her hair while she was talking to me to which I then discovered it was tailbone-length, which made me a bit nervous.
I guess I'm trying to find common grounds on this. Even if hair is the main thing I pay attention to on a girl, it still needs to complement the body. It seems like I'm looking for a certain interaction between a girl's hair and her body, which I don't see anybody else here speaking about.